Cranky Old Man

Cranky Old Man



What do you see nurses? . . .. . .What do you see?
What are you thinking .. . when you're looking at me?
A cranky old man, . . . . . .not very wise,
Uncertain of habit .. . . . . . . .. with faraway eyes?
Who dribbles his food .. . ... . . and makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice . .'I do wish you'd try!'
Who seems not to notice . . .the things that you do.
And forever is losing . . . . . .. . . A sock or shoe?
Who, resisting or not . . . ... lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding . . . .The long day to fill?
Is that what you're thinking?. .Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse .you're not looking at me.
I'll tell you who I am . . . . .. As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding, .. . . . as I eat at your will.
I'm a small child of Ten . .with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters .. . . .. . who love one another
A young boy of Sixteen . . . .. with wings on his feet
Dreaming that soon now . . .. . . a lover he'll meet.
A groom soon at Twenty . . . ..my heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows .. .. .that I promised to keep.
At Twenty-Five, now . . . . .I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide . . . And a secure happy home.
A man of Thirty . .. . . . . My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other . . .. With ties that should last.
At Forty, my young sons .. .have grown and are gone,
But my woman is beside me . . to see I don't mourn.
At Fifty, once more, .. ...Babies play 'round my knee,
Again, we know children . . . . My loved one and me.
Dark days are upon me . . . . My wife is now dead.
I look at the future ... . . . . I shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing .. . . young of their own.
And I think of the years . . . And the love that I've known.
I'm now an old man . . . . . . .. and nature is cruel.
It's jest to make old age . . . . . . . look like a fool.
The body, it crumbles .. .. . grace and vigor, depart.
There is now a stone . . . where I once had a heart.
But inside this old carcass . A young man still dwells,
And now and again . . . . . my battered heart swells
I remember the joys . . . . .. . I remember the pain.
And I'm loving and living . . . . . . . life over again.
I think of the years, all too few . . .. gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact . . . that nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people .. . . . .. . . open and see.
Not a cranky old man .
Look closer . . . . see .. .. . .. .... . ME!!

Sociolinguistics

Language & Gender



There are differences between women and men to communicate using language in the society. According to Deborah Cameron, a professor at Worcester College in University of Oxford, the sexes (female and male) communicate differently because of the way their brain. In her book The Myth of Mars and Venus 2007, she said that the female brain excels in verbal tasks whereas the male brain is better adapted to visual-spatial and mathematic tasks. Women like to talk; men prefer action than words.

The proposition that men and women communicate differently is particularly uncontroversial, with clichés such as “men never listen” and “women find it easier to talk about their feelings” referenced constantly in everything from women’s magazines to humorous greeting cards.

Someone else who thinks men and women are naturally suited to different kinds of work is Simon Baron Cohen, a professor of Development Psychopathology at University of Cambridge. In the essential difference he offers the following “Scientific” careers advice : “People with the female brain make the most wonderful counselors, primary school teachers, nurses, cares, therapists, social workers, mediators, group facilitators or personnel staff. People with the male brain make the most wonderful scientists, engineers, mechanics, technicians, musicians, architects, electricians, plumbers, taxonomists, catalogists, bankers, toolmakers, programmers, or even lawyers.”


In the book “The Myth of Mars and Venus” claims :

1.      Language and communication matter more to women than men; women talk more than men

2.      Women are more verbally skilled than men

3.      Men’s goal in using language tend to be about getting things done, whereas women’s tend to be about making connections to other people. Men talk more about things and facts, whereas women talk more about people, relationship and feelings.

4.      Men’s way of using language is competitive, reflecting their general interest in acquiring and maintaining status; women’s use of language is cooperative, reflecting their preference for equality and harmony.

Deborah Tannen, 1990. You Just Don’t Understand : Women and Men in Conversation, claims :

-          Women speak a language of connection and intimacy

-          Men speak a language of status and independence

Dream

Dream


Dream : thoughts/images/sensations that cursed while sleeping.



When we sleep, our consciousness  turns to non-physical perspective. It withdraws from physical focus.

Having out of body experience. Experiencing higher-frequency  dimension reality.

Beliefs

How To Change Beliefs


First thing to change belief is to change how you're thinking about beliefs and reality. The natural flexibilities.

Belief is a thought that you keep thinking, so much so that it creates very strong frequency in the universe.


Belief backed-up of thoughts, which is backed-up by confidence, faith, trust, and acceptance.


Beliefs can and should be change, if they are set benefits to you.

The only beliefs which we should be holding, and maintaining  in our life are the beliefs that have benefits to us. Especially because in order to manifest things to our reality, the frequency of our beliefs and desires must be an exact match.


First step of changing beliefs :

  •     Identify what that belief is.
  •     (Root belief, Core belief.)

Second :

  •     Examine the beliefs which you held


Third : Determine the emotion that holding you to the belief.

  •     Decrease the emotional
  •     Look at the facts
  •     Change beliefs


Forth :

  •     Replace with new evidence
  •     Re-flaming the evidence and beliefs to good


Fifth :

  •     Look for the new evidence or proof to back-up the beliefs.

Six :

  •     Use affirmation correctly.

Jealousy & Envy

Jealousy & Envy

(Ego, Emotion)



Both of emotions reflect of lack. It's the feeling states such a painful emotion.

Jealousy and envy can only arise when we were holding the perspective that we're separated from other people.


1. We only feel jealousy when we feel envy, when we're perceiving lack.

    Consciously change your attention or perspective.


2. Think other alternative to get what we want and need.


3. Never expect yourself not to feel this way. It's okay to be feel this way.

    Your emotions are always the perfect reflection of your thinking.

    Self-esteem - Self-love


4. Overcome shame.


5. Healthy comparison thinking for healthy competition.


6. Make gratitude and thankful for what you love.


7. Be open.

    It is shadow aspect of human being - jealousy and envy. It costs to lose power, limited perspectives.


8. Switch your attention to generosity to other people. Give something to other.
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